And this is why a lot of men treat women as disposable these days. Being a gentleman is equated to being sexist. Paying for dinner, opening doors, and treating someone like they are special, is not being an ass. Harry is a gentleman who actually respects women. He is labeled as a pig because of it. He has on multiple occasions refused to take advantage of women when he could have.
Don't count me as one of those kind of women.. It is called manners, and just because a man chooses to be a gentleman, that doesn't mean the woman can't be a lady and accept with grace and return the compliment. It is about respect for one's talents, brains etc on an equal basis.. A man opening a door for me is not degrading in any way.. And hey, I'd do the same for him.